Believe it or not, our children are resilient. We don’t need to teach them to be resilient. Instead, we need to build their resilience. It is like a muscle that needs to be used and exercised to become stronger and better.
So – how do we do this? How do we build our children’s resilience? Continue reading “Building Resilience in our Children”
“Mum, she said I’m ugly.” “Well is that the truth?” “No!” “Then push it away and don’t listen to it”
My kids often come to me to let me know that one of their siblings has said something mean. And while I will certainly deal with the offender, my first response is always “Well, is it the truth?” Continue reading “Telling yourself the truth”
I’ve always been an extremely over protective mother. The type who conducts a silent risk assessment for all the activities my children do and has ruled out a good deal of the parks in our local area because they are deemed unsafe in one way or the other. One of my biggest fears is that one of my precious babes will sustain a serious head injury. The thought of this happening to one of my children has always sent shivers down my spine. Continue reading “Facing my darkest season – what an extremely premature birth taught me about love and motherhood”
There are currently around 7.6 billion people in the world and I’m pretty certain they’ve all had a mother. These mothers are all different shapes, colours, sizes and have all had different life experiences. They mostly all adore the child that they get to call their own and that love is mostly returned fiercely. Some are loud and hilarious and others are quiet and kind, while others are adventurous and others nurturing. Very few are all of these things. Continue reading “Free to lead”
We’ve all heard the saying, When life hands you lemons, make lemonade. But, what does that mean, and what do we do with disappointment to prevent it from become all-consuming? Continue reading “When Life Hands You Lemons: What To Do With Disappointment”
The worst conversation about money is the one you never have.
Now, they tell us that couples will always argue about money. It’s understandable, too. We need it to survive, and it often has roots in the way that we were raised- the same fears, habits, and attitudes. We were all taught in different ways by our parents and, as we grow families of our own, the task then becomes ours to manage the household. Continue reading “Money Matters “
Regret. *ugh* Its such a heavy word. Filled with the memories of the things you did that make you cringe or the things you wish you’d done, but didn’t.
It’s the reason we shudder at a milestone birthday – a reminder of the things we want to wish away.
Continue reading “How To Live With No Regrets!”
My day starts the night before.
Washing the bottles. Boiling the kettle.
Prepping the baby bag…making sure I haven’t accidentally left a letter with my address on it inside.
Continue reading “Diary Of A Foster Mum”
I see it in every personality test I’ve ever done over the years. That one word that makes it easy to identify which box or column or group of letters I belong to best – Perfectionist! Continue reading “Letting go of Perfect”
Today as my children wake me up with their buttery fingers and vegemite smeared faces, I will think of when you woke up to a quiet home and an empty womb, dreams of little fingers wrapped around yours seemingly far away. Continue reading “I will think of you”